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Grandma knows best

Thursday, May 10th, 2012

food for thought thursday

grandma knows best

As I began my trek down this healthy living path I somehow became an eliminator.

I decided if I didn’t eat certain foods (thankfully I’ve repressed what they were as I quite clearly recall the repetitive nature of the foods which remained) my excess weight would miraculously  melt away.  Swiftly, easily and permanently.

Not only did I possess zero healthy eating habits as I began to shed pounds, the healthy foods I did consume I ate over and over (and over).

Apples. Apples. Apples.

Big salads. Big salads. Big salads.

You get the idea.

And you know the prevailing wisdom about not eating the same foods daily because if you miss a nutrient once you miss it *repeatedly*?  That was me. BigGapsInMyDiet McGee.

I’d arbitrarily pick a few healthy food options, eat them till I lost my appetite completely (take my word for how shocking this is), return to old junk-food habits, and eventually start the cycle again.

I firmly believe I’d still be in the ‘grasping at random healthy foods in a panic’ loop were it not for a comment a friend made:

You need to eat like our grandparents did. Half a sandwich, some fruit, veggies, a few nuts and a glass of milk.”

Eat like our grandparents did.

Those words made sense to me.  It was that basic: real food, real ingredients, wide variety.

For the next few weeks I thought about my grandmothers each time I reached for food or prepared a meal.

Is this something they’d have eaten?  Is what I’m about to place in my mouth something they’d have recognized as “food”?”

I’d be lying if I claimed I succeeded in answering YES to both questions back then.

Heck, I’d be lying if I claim I succeed in answering YES to both questions right now.

There are still times when I grab a snack pack (something neither grandmother would have recognized), but the victory is it’s a conscious choice and not done mindlessly or emotionally.

I strive, some days more successfully than others, to consume only real ingredients and a wide array of healthy foods.

I make an effort to eat as my grandmothers did.

And, on the days when eating healthy involves much preparation and work, I like to imagine them investing the same care and time in the foods they ate, too.

I like to imagine they’re smiling at my efforts.

Take a moment and reflect on what you’ve eaten over the past few days.

Did you consume foods our grandparents would have recognized or eaten?

Do you struggle, as I still do, with the ease of the processed?

 

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3 Simple Tips to Lose Weight and Maintain

Thursday, April 12th, 2012

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don't overthink it

“You really need to stop saying that to people.  It isn’t easy or simple.  I know what you mean, but they don’t.”

It wasn’t until my husband made the remark above I realized how frequently, when asked about my weight loss maintenance, I used the adjectives easy and simple.

Once he pointed it out to me, however, I immediately saw his point.

You see, to me, weight loss, weight loss maintaining, healthy living was all very simple…to explain.

In my experience discovering my healthy living path, losing weight and keeping it off was all very easy …in theory.

In no way did I mean the execution of these simple concepts was easy (I’d begged, cajoled & bribed myself to do cardio enough times to know that fact well).

When I said those words to people I simply meant the explanation of how I got and remained fit was a simple one.

No crazy exercise routines.

No numbers crunching, calorie counting or eating for my blood-type.

No hours spent preparing special just for me meals or eons spent toiling away in the gym.

How I lost weight and maintained the loss /stayed fit was easy.

It all came down to three simple rules.

1.       Don’t over-think it.  Any of ‘it’ from the food to the fitness.  Listen to your body.  Once we slow down and focus on what our bodies are really asking for, healthy eating becomes simple.  For me, this resulted in gluten free foods.  It may be different for you.   Simply listen- your body knows.  The same approach applies to fitness.  Try new things.  See how you feel.  Don’t over-think “what’s the best workout” or what will get you to your goals most swiftly.  Stop thinking.  Try something. Simply listen to how your body responds.

2.       Eat as close to nature as possible.  I have no rules when it comes to food.   My choice to be gluten free is merely an outgrowth of paying attention to how gluten caused my body to feel.    I’ve discovered, for me, simple healthy recipes and foods in their natural state help me to feel my best.  Intellectually I’m aware of the advantages of eating healthy, but the only thing I strive for is eating as close to nature as possible.  It’s simple.

3.       Let go and move on.  For me everything became simpler and easier when I finally realized I’m never as far from my healthy path as my very.next.choice.  It’s simple.  Made a food selection you wish you hadn’t? Make a new and different one at your next meal.  Skipped your workout yesterday (and the day before and the day before)? It’s simple.  Make today the day you recommit.  Let go of past (perceived) mistakes and move forward.

Have you found, when all is stripped away, your approach to healthy living is a simple one, too?

 

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The long and short of it

Thursday, March 8th, 2012

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the long and short of motivation

This post practically writes itself.

Or more, more aptly put, I’d like to think it’s a post which finds you nodding your head and thinking: “I’ve been there.”

When I was there—and there for a while—the struggle to find real motivation was a lonely one.

I have mentioned (a million times) I started this journey for superficial reasons.  Living a healthy lifestyle sounded nice, but fitting into a bikini for spring break sounded a whole lot nicer.

I was young.  Fifty was *old* to me then and I couldn’t see why how I looked let alone felt would matter at that point.  Life was pretty much over by 30 —or so I thought.

I cared not about learning and maintaining healthy habits.  I cared a lot about catching the eye of the college boys who were, uh, ‘gathering’ in Ft Lauderdale in a few months.  I know.  I cringe for my younger-self now, too.

I made the decision (lose the beer gut by spring break).  I found the motivation (Victoria’s Secret bikini).  I was on fire.

I focused on my goals. I achieved my goals. I went on spring break.

I tossed my habits out the window (insert inappropriate joke here about better the habits than the bikini top). I came back from vacation a few pounds heavier (three cheers for the all beer diet) and soon after regained everything I’d lost.

And, in a way which I couldn’t see back then, it all made perfect sense.

I lacked any real motivation to stick to my plan and it was another four years before I did the work and uncovered three reasons which still motivate me today.

I want to live longer.  I hate cardio.  I disagree with those who say “you can discover a form of cardio you enjoy!”  I’ve discovered cardio I’ll do, but that’s different.  How do I motivate myself to do the cardio? I know the benefits for my heart outweigh my hate.

 I want to live more vitally.  I joke about fearing being the ‘old mom’ at my daughter’s high school or college graduation. More truth is, indeed, said in jest.  I now grasp the advantages of eating healthy are not just to fit the long gone Victoria’s Secret bikini, but for more important stuff:  energy, strength, and yes good digestive health.

I want functional fitness.  I adore the fact I don’t need to ask for assistance when bringing inside my Costco haul.  I’m proud of how easily I toss my luggage into the overhead airplane bin.  I’m highly motivated, especially at age 42 and a half to maintain these and other functional fitness ‘skills.’

Have you found your motivation for staying healthy & fit changed over time, too? 

Was this shift to suit changing needs or did you, like I, have to do emotional-work to uncover reasons for real motivation?

 

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